According to some psychologists, there exist some distinct ways in which your partner treats you, which gives an idea that maybe your relationship has arrived at a dead end. It might also be a hint that your partner lacks the level of seriousness that was required.
In addition to this, scientists have also listed particular words or phrases that could be used to damage any relationship. These phrases can give you a prior notice that your partner has fallen out of love.
1. “I cannot explain everything to you”
Nobody likes to be questioned all the time and of course your partner also feels the same way. They do not have to put into words everything they do but, it is not unusual to expect to know about how your partner has been through the day or discuss about a common issue you both have in your mind. This can be justified as the basic needs of being human. If your partner is unwilling to do so, then he/she probably has stopped caring about what you are thinking.
People in love are often friendly with each other while telling the day’s story.
2. “Your problem is not mine”
These words clearly show that your relationship is not a healthy one and it is coming to an end. If they are not concerned about your issues then your partner might have lost their feelings towards you.
People in love take out time for each other even if the problem is not related to them.
3. “Get some other people when you are not liking it’’
One can try to control you with these words when they do not want anyone to be different and when they seriously hold the belief that it is you who should compromise on everything and live with whatever faults they have. They say that you can leave whenever you want.
Couples should be willing to understand each other in all the cases and be soft spoken while communicating with one another and show respect towards each person.
4. “I cannot believe you”
This phrase reflects the lack of confidence in people or is used by dominating persons. Even when it is not your fault, they would behave in a demanding way where they give excuses. Probably it is their way to find an issue to put up a fight and eventually end the relationship.
Listening to one another is something that couples in love do.
5. “Do whatever you think is right”
It shows that they are maintaining a distance from you and are not concerned about you. They are not bothered about what you will do when you are in a complex situation and whether you would be able to help yourself or not. They want you to face all those matters that are not related to him/her directly.
Couples work hand in hand and have an opinion in every choice. They will support each other at every point in life. Seeking attention in every matter is not a healthy way to start a relationship.
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6. “Stop thinking so much”
When you try to make them realize about their faults, they may say these words so that you stop doing that. Well, of course, there might be a case where you are actually overthinking.
Whenever such a condition arises, you must keep your calm and give it proper thought and make it clear to your better half about what is worrying you. “You are thinking too much” cannot be a response and you should keep this in your mind. You can always ask them to give a proper answer. If, even after this, your partner repeats the same thing then he/she might not love you any longer.
7. “I really love you”
When you love someone, you do not need to emphasize it. You can just say “I love you”. But when your partner is saying that he/she really loves you, it might be that your partner is feeling answerable for something and they try to prove their feelings towards you. It can be a way of justifying their guilt.
Possibly your partner could be trying to control your emotions. If your partner says any of the phrases from what we have mentioned above and then comforts you with saying that they really love you, then probably, they are lying.
If your relationship is healthy and none of this is a part of your relationship then there is no doubt that your partner sincerely loves you. Your partner would never say these things to you if they ever loved you. But they might say so given the fact that they can be disturbed or annoyed at times.
So, according to you, which of these words gives a signal that your partner does not love you any longer?