Off The Record
Daughter Haunted By Father’s Final Words Moments Before He Passed Away
The toughest thing I’ve ever had to do was leave my dad in a nursing home. But I was powerless. As a single mother, I work two jobs to make ends meet. Taking care of him and my daughter simultaneously? Not possible.
Time passed through my fingers like sand, yet I tried my best to visit when I could. He would enquire, “When am I coming home?” during each visit. I would also lie. “Come on, Dad. All I have to do is work things out.”
In actuality, there was nothing to decipher. As it was, I could hardly afford his care. The nursing home bill was the direct result of every additional shift I took. Knowing that he spent more time with the staff than with me made my heart hurt.
Then I received the call one evening. The nurse’s voice was quieter than normal as she stated, “You should come now.”
With my daughter’s tiny hand clutching mine, I hurried over. He appeared very little in the bed when we arrived. I had never seen him so weak.
I sat next to him and held his weak hand while professing my love and regret for not being able to do more for him. His eyes met mine; they were filled with something I couldn’t quite identify.
Then he spoke, right before he died.
He gave my hand a startlingly powerful squeeze. I never expected to hear the words that came out of his steady but feeble voice: “Go examine the trunk in my old shed. You must be aware of the truth.”
My daughter was standing calmly at the foot of his bed when his eyes strayed to her. She appeared to be aware of the seriousness of the situation despite her youth. He turned back to me after giving her a soft grin. Then he was gone with a single, quiet, rattling breath.
It seemed as though time had completely stopped for a moment. I was unable to comprehend it. Now, my father, who had been my primary source of support as a child, lay quietly before me, not just pain-free but also life-free. My daughter put her hand on my arm after observing my shaking shoulders. That tiny, incredibly loving touch helped me find my true self.
I barely slept at all that night. My thoughts returned to my father’s final advice to look in my old shed’s trunk. Which trunk? What is the truth? My dad had never been the kind to hide things. We discussed everything from his favourite vintage Western movie to money. However, his last hint hinted at something he never disclosed.
I drove to his deserted home two days after setting up the funeral service. I had continued to pay the meagre maintenance costs in the hopes that he could return someday. The paint was peeling in a few places, and the yard was overrun with weeds. I experienced a twinge of remorse. This was the house where I grew up, dilapidated by neglect.
The little shed in the rear was where Dad kept his gardening equipment. Dad felt it was too unsafe with all the sharp tools and discarded timber, so my brother and I were never allowed inside as children. The door now creaked open with the wind as I got closer. As I entered, dust particles whirled in the sunlight.
The trunk was easy to locate. It was in the corner, secured with a little padlock, beneath a fading tarp. I looked around but couldn’t find a key. I eventually came to the conclusion that the key might be on Dad’s old keychain, which I had put in my purse following his death. As expected, there was a small, corroded key that was a perfect fit for the lock. As I opened the lid, my heart raced.
I discovered a cloth-bound journal, letters, and a stack of old photos within. Every object felt like a piece of a puzzle, a piece of a larger picture that Dad had concealed. Flipping through a few letters, I placed the trunk on a dirty workbench near the window. They were addressed to him using his high school nickname, “Duke,” rather than his real name. Maple Valley Rehabilitation Centre is the return address. I scowled. I was unaware of that location.
As I continued reading, I discovered that Maple Valley had once served as a sanctuary for those battling addiction. The letters, sent by various people, all discussed how Dad had impacted their lives. “Thank you, Duke, for saving me from the deepest abyss,” one person commented. I owe you my life. Another said, “My daughter was saved by your kindness.” Even though we will never be able to pay you back, we will continue to do so as you requested.
My heart pounded. Dad, a counsellor for addiction? I had been raised to believe that Dad had a menial desk job in a finance office. He had never brought up helping others or volunteering at a rehabilitation facility. Is it possible that he led a life that I was unaware of?
There were photos of Dad standing with individuals of all ages underneath the letters. He was photographed at a neighbourhood soup kitchen in one picture and at a community garden in another. He was grinning at each one, just as he had at me, as though he was proud of them all and had faith in them.
I turned the journal over. It was dated over two decades ago on its first page. His tidy, slanted penmanship communicated his innermost thoughts:
“I can’t let my kids grow up seeing me fail, even though I don’t want them to see me like this. I thus go out and assist others in the hopes that one day they would realise that we are capable of doing good even at our most trying moments.”
My chest constricted. Dad had always claimed to be abroad on business travels, occupied with spreadsheets and numbers. As it happened, he was spending his days assisting those who were having a hard time starting over. It’s possible that he kept it a secret to avoid us understanding or to save us the emotional toll it imposed on him.
Tears clouded my vision as I read on. There were tales of Dad encouraging individuals to keep going by holding their hands when they felt hopeless. He talked of discreetly covering medical expenditures for people who couldn’t afford them. In addition, he talked about his struggles with heartbreak and his remorse over not being more present for us. This hero in everyday clothes was like finding a completely new side of himself.
I experienced a rush of both admiration and regret as I closed the journal. Even in his last years, my father, who had dedicated his life to helping others, wished he could go home, but he knew I couldn’t handle it. I felt a little lighter after discovering his kind double life, as though his parting message was a reminder that I tried my hardest. He had followed suit.
It was a low-key funeral service. Nevertheless, I was shocked by the turnout. Individuals I had never met arrived with tears in their eyes and flowers in hand. One by one, they came up to me and said things like, “Your dad helped me when I was at my lowest,” or “Your dad is the reason I’m sober.” As they related to me how he transformed their life, I found myself consoling them without ever expecting anything in return.
I realised how big my dad’s heart really was through these shared memories. The fact that I couldn’t take him home suddenly didn’t matter. He left a legacy in the lives of those he had rescued and a loving community in the nursing home. My pride and thankfulness took the place of my remorse. I understood that Dad was telling me his greatest secret when he said, “Go… check the trunk… you need to know the truth.” He wanted me to realise that, in spite of his final weakness, he had led a life full of meaning.
I embraced my daughter after the service. “Mom, did Grandpa really help all those people?” she enquired. I nodded, tears welling up once more. Yes, dear. He helped individuals discover hope when they were unable to see it for themselves, and he had a big heart.
She gave you one of those small smiles that gives you hope that everything is good. She muttered, “That’s what I want to do too.” “Assist others.”
I was relieved in that instant. Suddenly, it seemed as though my daughter’s future was full with opportunities, moulded by the same generosity that steered my father. I may not have been able to provide him with a home in my small flat, but I had shown him affection. In exchange, he had taught us a valuable lesson: Even if you have little to offer, you can always do good.
After putting my kid to bed that evening, I couldn’t help but relive our last moments together. I recalled the expression in his eyes: one of affection, acceptance, and a hint of assurance. When I put him in a nursing home, he wasn’t upset with me. I was doing the best I could, he realised.
I dreamed as I was falling asleep. It showed Dad standing in a sunlit orchard, one of his favourite spots from my early years, wearing the same plaid shirt he used to wear to cookouts. I hadn’t seen him this healthy in a long time. His smile filled my entire being with warmth. I could just feel his fingers ruffling my hair as he used to when he reached out.
Then he said something. His soft, confident words reverberated in my heart and around the orchard:
“I appreciate everything you did for me; you were the luckiest father ever, and I will always look out for you from above.”
We frequently harbour guilt over circumstances beyond our control, such as our inability to provide for a loved one at home. But in reality, a person’s place of residence doesn’t define their level of affection. It’s determined by how much care, effort, and kindness you provide when they most need you. I learnt from my father that people always have more to tell and can make a bigger impact on the world than you may ever know. And we are motivated to spread our own love and kindness when we see the depths of someone else’s compassion.
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