Relationship
7 Things He Does Subconsciously When He Is Falling In Love With You
Love is a beautiful emotion and we all would attest to that. What makes it even more special is that it implies a level of devotion and dedication towards some other person and a desire to go beyond just the physical and into the emotional. Yet, as couples go, nothing is sweet sailing, as trust can be easily broken and never be fully repaired. Also, the initiation into the process is always the hardest to deal with.
How do you know you are in love? What are the signs? What would give it away? Similarly for the other person, what are the signs that he is in love with you?
It is recorded that human emotions are always displayed by human actions. Expressions of love, disgust, awe, lust, and all others are clearly visible in one’s daily activities, and it wouldn’t even take a trained eye to notice that – it is that transparent!
Nevertheless, most of us have no idea when someone is in love with us. It takes our friends to literally force our eyes into their direction, at which they quickly remove their gaze, albeit blushingly.
Well, here are 7 signs that he could very well be in love with you:
1. He Utters Your Name Out Loud
This is one of those giveaways. When someone is speaking to you, it is uncommon for them to be using your name while still in conversation. For, under the rules of speech, you don’t really need to mention the listener’s name, for they are hanging on to your word. And yet they utter your name out loud. Why?
It could very well be because your name sounds pleasant to them and they want to be more familiar with it. Or, it could also be that they like how it drops of their tongue. Or, and this is important, it could be because the moment they mention your name, there is an onrush of emotions that swivel along with the name, making it sound different than any other person saying it loudly.
2. Lips Are Slightly Parted When He is Looking At You
No, it doesn’t mean that he would then be drooling from his mouth. It just means that looking at you evoked certain emotions that were so tumultuous that he needed to take a deeper breath just to say something or do something. His feelings for you are so deep that, staring into your eyes, he felt his world shift and that deeper intake of breath was him returning back to normalcy.
Be sure to exactly look at his lips and see where he is looking at. It would be a sign of what he wanted to do, for he might actually look at your eyes and then at your lips, with slightly parted lips, as if he wanted to kiss you.
3. Playing With His Hair
This is for both for men and women. When he has feelings for you, or to put it simply, when he is crushing on you, he will tend to play with or fiddle with his hair. This is a result of him being really nervous before you. Psychologically, this action is him trying to divert your attention from his face to his hair. Why don’t you try and relax him a bit?
4. Looking You Up and Down
You can shout sexism all you like, but humans live on first impressions. And if by the tenth impression you still are the extremely attractive woman he saw the first time, you may be sure that he has checked you really nicely. If he is a gentleman, he will never comment on it, opting to stay silent but, regardless of that, he is going to check you pretty intricately.
He will never make a move until you give him some sort of a sign, but he will make sure he has looked at you enough times to have a mental picture. So the next time you meet, and if you are into him, make sure that you dress provocatively.
You should also read: If Your Partner Shows These 6 Signs, He Is Truly In Love With You
5. Looking At You
It stems directly from the above point. Someone who is falling in love with you will stare at you a lot. It doesn’t need to be creepy; it would mostly be longing and awe. He will be looking at you over the table, on the other side of the road, from classrooms, and you would get familiar with his gaze.
Important to be noted that this isn’t the creepy stalker gaze that almost every woman is familiar with, but this would be one of those stares where you look at someone you love with nothing but pure thoughts in your mind.
6. Always Finds a Way To Talk To You
He might be immensely busy, but he would still make sure that he gets to speak to you at least once a day. He would never forget about you or what you mean to him. Even if he is swamped and has no idea what your number is, if he feels that deeply about you, he would get your number from someone and text you. He would make it a point to hear your voice once before he sleeps, and he would never give up on that.
7. Steer You While Walking
No, he wouldn’t be grabbing your butt, but would gently steer you holding onto a small portion of your back. This is because he is protective about you and cares deeply. And this would probably be one of those moments when you would get a hint if this guy is good or just another creep.
Well, here are some of the reasons that he is into you. Now, it needs to be seen how you respond to that.
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