“I have my own high standards for what I want in a partner and how I want to be treated. I bring a lot to the table. I’m not talking about material things but what I have to offer as a person – love and loyalty and all the things that make a good relationship.” -Jennifer Lopez
Love has no rules but, when it comes to marriage, you might want to consider things calmly. If you wish to live with someone for the rest of your life, compatibility has to be the key. The initial “pleasing” tendency fades away and you wish you had taken more time to get to know the real person.
Here are signs that she is your perfect match:
1. You Want To Improve
Love is about growing each day without growing apart. Love is not a rose tinted glass where everything is magical; it is very real. Everyone has flaws, that’s what makes us humans, but you want to mend your mistakes and work on your setbacks. This is a sign of a healthy relationship.
2. She Is Transparent
You never have to second guess her intentions or doubt her feelings. She clearly states what she wants instead of playing coy games. Her transparency makes the relationship easy, as there is nothing to hide. You too wish to share things with her.
3. She Knows Your Priorities
We all have things that are indispensable – be it our hobbies, passion, family bonds or friendships. It is important to understand that the universe doesn’t revolve around you, and there can be other more important things. Marry someone who knows where they stand in your life and won’t put pressure on you to change it.
4. Gives You Space
Personal time is extremely important as it is the fuel for life. Time spent with your partner is great too but there are certain healthy boundaries that are vital to the relationship. Everyone needs their own space every once in a while and she understands that and respects that.
5. She Is A Part Of The Family
You always wanted to introduce her to your parents and now she has become an integral part of the family. She gives a lot of effort because she knows how much you value them.
6. She Is A Free Bird
She is not dependent on you for anything. You are not there to dictate her life, not that she’ll let you.
7. Variety Is The Spice Of Life
Does she love exploring new places with you? Does she try new dishes? Does she want to try new things in the bedroom? If the answer is yes, you have found the perfect girl. Routine is lethal, so get yourself a girl who is always broadening her horizon.
She has her own point of view, without stopping you from having one yourself. She doesn’t impose her will and she accepts differences. You have found a middle ground in the relationship.
9. Open Hearted
She loves to share her joys with everyone. If you give her a tiny present, she’ll dance about flaunting it. She is inclusive. She is proud of you and will not filter her feelings.
10. No Generalizations
“All men are trash”, “I hate men”, “all men are the same”. Such statements are made by small-minded women who know nothing. The perfect girl will treat you like a unique individual. Even if she had a bad dating history, and not-so-great relationship experiences, she doesn’t necessarily thinks that you are just like them as well.
11. Her Dreams
She is driven and has her goals. Marriage is not the only accomplishment that she is seeking. She is someone who knows how to balance the two and expects the same of you. She is someone that excites you about reaching your goals and achieving your dreams, not someone that puts a stop to that.
12. You Feel Blessed
Life becomes easier with her around. Just her presence means the world to you and you feel like you can do everything. She knows you inside out – your fears, dreams, flaws and insecurities, but will keep it to herself. She knows your dark side but still chooses you.
“There is no more lovely, friendly and charming relationship, communion or company than a good marriage.”
Hence, choose wisely and love freely.
Must Read The Best Books about Love and Relationship:
- The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love that Lasts
- The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: A Practical Guide from the Country’s Foremost Relationship Expert
- Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus: The Classic Guide to Understanding the Opposite Sex