Love is a beautiful thing and it is truly worthwhile when shared with someone else who loves you back but, unfortunately, not all relationships are forever.
Sometimes we see and notice that our partner is falling out of love with us. It may take a little bit of time to accept this reality but it cannot be ignored forever.
Given below is a list of signs that may indicate that your partner does not love you anymore:
1. No demonstration of love
If they do not make their love for you explicitly known to you, chances are that they are over their feelings for you, especially is they are showing interest in someone else. Because, when someone loves you, they show it with big or small gestures. And if your partner has no interest in showing you their love, it might mean that it is not there anymore.
If they are preoccupied when you are talking to them, and seem to not care about what you are saying, they are probably falling out of love with you. They lose interest in you as a whole and do not even make an effort to work on that. When someone loves you, they are never too busy for you and they make time for you, they put you high on their list of priorities. But if your partner has no time for you, or doesn’t make time anymore, it probably means that they have fallen out of love with you.
3. Nothing to talk about
When you are dating someone, sometimes you run out of things to talk about and it starts to feel like you are stuck in a rut. This is an alarm for you both to get up, do the mature thing and end things for the best of everyone. Even when there is nothing to talk about, people still find things and topics to talk about. But if your partner simply doesn’t bother, or is not interested in talking to you, that might mean that they are not in love with you anymore.
4. You get the blame
When love does not feel like love anymore and your partner starts blaming you for every little thing that goes wrong between you two, it is basically the Universe telling you that it is over and it is time for a break up.
5. No support
Both of you start losing that special place in each other’s hearts and see that you do not have the kind of emotion to support each other in difficult times and are busy blaming each other and picking faults.
6. Never at home
If your partner has some or the other excuse to not be at home with you, chances are they are seeing someone else and it is only a matter of time before they end things with you because they just are not feeling it anymore.
7. Not in their plans
They freely make plans without you and do not even feel the need to inform you that they are making plans or going somewhere with their friends because you just do not feature in their list of important people in their life anymore.
8. They disrespect you
When you think about your relationship, if you are only reminded of pain and heartbreak and none of the happy moments you once shared ages ago, the relationship is done for. There is not much left and you both are more or less done with it. Remind yourself that a relationship should be about love and the good things in life.
9. No explanations
If they do things that you do not like, knowingly, and do not even consider that it is necessary to explain their actions at any point, it means they have lost all affection for you. They stop considering you as an important part of their lives and start treating you like you are some background noise. This is a clear signal that they are done and want out as soon as possible.
10. You hate/hurt yourself
They treat you badly and that makes you feel like you are unworthy, which leads to you hating yourself and in some cases, even hurting yourself physically because your self esteem takes a huge hit. If this happens, you should break up for your own sake and move on with your life. Life has much more to offer.