We all want to find someone we can spend the rest of our lives with but, sometimes, the very thought of entering that process can make you feel exhausted. Just going on dates can get really hard.
Eventually, you may meet a person you feel connected to but you’ll also have to deal with the fact that you’re different people and all these differences will cause a rift between the two of you. It is stressful, both physically and mentally.
To make things easier, you can use astrology to see who you’d be more likely to get along with and focus all your efforts in their direction. This will ensure that you don’t waste time on someone who is completely wrong for you. You can really narrow down on the search for ‘the one’.
The Inner Workings Of Astrology
Explaining how astrology works is not easy because there are many variables you need to take into account. The best way to start would be by asking an astrologer to help you figure out how the traits associated with your zodiac sign can be of use to you.
According to Joshua MacGuire, an astrologer, life coach, and psychic, Venus is better at coexisting with all the other celestial bodies and aspects of a relationship.
Where you stand with the moon will help you understand what you’ll require emotionally. The position of Mars helps you understand your passion and sexuality. Mercury is an indicator for your communication abilities and Jupiter teaches you to grow.
Analyzing all these factors in comparison to the other person’s astrological chart will ensure that you’re in a good relationship which has the capacity to be strong and lasting.
Compatibility Between The Signs
It is important to consider every aspect when you’re looking at relationships but just your relationship with the sun can help. This is the way you’re most likely to know as we all are usually aware of whether we’re a Sagittarius or Capricorn or any other sign.
Adding the influence of the moon here will show you the differences you have with the person your sun sign makes you compatible with, and helps you understand each other better.
Astrologers get annoyed when people only enquire about their sun signs because they’re ignoring all the other facts that need to be considered. But usually, signs denoting Fire and Air are compatible with each other. The same can be said for Earth and Water signs.
However, the whole chart must be looked at if you really want astrological help.
These are the ways in which you can use astrology to find ‘the one’.
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It Can Tell You About Each Other’s Preferences
Knowing the basics of a person’s personality from their zodiac signs will help you learn more about them.
For example, those born under Pisces tend to be dreamy with leaning towards escapism. Taurus, on the other hand, is a more down to earth sign and they can actually help Pisces find stability.
When you consider all other aspects, Sagittarius and Taurus may not get along, as the former wishes to be adventurous and free whereas the latter wants to be secure and consistent. Reconciling these differences will not be easy.
Helps You Deal With The Usual Issues
There are problems that plague every relationship and astrology assists you in predicting when they’ll show up in yours, using your personalities and charts. If the male partner’s moon interacts with Sagittarius and the female’s with Taurus, differences will arise because the man will want to be free while the woman will want someone she can depend on and who makes her feel safe.
You Understand Your Own Habits
Each sign comes with a set of its own passions and interests. Knowing what your partner is interested in is very important and astrologers can help you figure these things out.
For example, Libras tend to romanticize one sided love. Once a Libra understands this danger, they can think about whether or not they are actually looking for a relationship or are just chasing some ideal of love.
Another example can be Virgos and their tendency to keep complaining. Showing them this truth will help them accept themselves for who they are and make them tolerate their partner’s personality better.
All you need to find is a person who sees eye to eye with you on the important things in life and astrology can guide you to that person by teaching you more about yourself and about others.
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