“The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed.” ― C.G. Jung
All you singles out there enjoy an incredible life by giving more time to yourself and by earning more, but, according to science, people who are married are happier. Long-term relationships have their own beauty in the comfortable silences and faith. If you expect it to be as mushy and happening like the beginning of your courtship, you are bound to be disappointed.
Let us be very realistic, with time people get used to each other and intimacy increases. This is not about settling for something mundane, but about knowing the finer things in life. “Constantly talking isn’t necessarily communicating” and you have to be with someone who is eloquent in silence.
Here are things people love about their relationships:
1. Bye Bye Loneliness!
Always having a friend by your side is definitely the best feeling in the world. It depends on how long you’ve known each other. After a torturous day at work, when you come home and begin your rant, you have a patient listener. You feel warm and fuzzy inside. You can still do things by yourself, but on the other side, if you don’t want to, you have someone that is always there!
2. You Are Unique
No one can be you. Your partner embraces your quirks without being judgmental. All the various versions are equally loved and appreciated because it makes you special. Even with your “bad” sides, your partner loves every single part of and about you, and they appreciate you for who you are. To them, you are unique and their one and only!
3. Just Being There
That person will be with you when you are being fussy about work, or when you are crying at 3 a.m or when you dance for no reason at all! Having someone to share your small world with and finding magic in the mundane is one of the best possible gifts of a long-term bond. From cuddles that cure everything to being loved when you’re not very lovable, a happy relationship has it all. Your partner will always be there for you through thick and thin, every time!
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4. Life Becomes Easier
All of us need a helping hand when we are burdened with work or are just feeling lazy. Your partner will come to your rescue and complete tasks faster by sharing the responsibilities. Smiles and tears are divided too to make you feel better.
5. Comfort Of Living With Your Favorite Person
If you live together, you get to be with your best friend every single day. You can share your experiences with someone who genuinely cares. Sometimes all we need is a little affection and understanding. You get to come home to your favorite person in the world, the one that truly and honestly cares about you.
6. Enjoying The Company
Sometimes you are tired and don’t even want to talk. In times like these, having someone around feels so comforting. You calm down and that person’s presence brightens your day.
7. You Can Do Weird Things
Someone actually said they can poop anytime they want without being conscious! The bottom line is, your true love doesn’t ask you to change but loves you for who you are. You can roam about naked, kiss whenever you want, share expenses, and the best part – enjoy every moment.
8. You Feel Loved
“When someone loves you, the way they talk about you is different. You feel safe and comfortable.” ― Jess C. Scott
It is always great to know there is someone who will always love you no matter what. You know someone cares about you and will stand by you through thick and thin. This feeling is something that comes with time but deep and unconditional love really does exist and is amazing!