Relationship
10 Confessions From Real Men About Why Their Relationships Failed
“The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed.” ― C.G. Jung
Love is the most beautiful feeling in the world and it is something that can destroy you as well. Relationships can be tricky. How is it that you decide to leave the person you love the most?
There are certain things that are unique and, unless someone is in your shoes, they can’t comprehend what you have been through. It is indeed complicated.
Here is the list of things men went through that made them call it an end:
1. Mom Issues
Moms play a pivotal role in the life of their kids. They expect a lot and have a tendency to control the lives of their children in the garb of taking “good care” or “wanting them to excel”. Once, a girl decided it was perfectly fine for her mom to live with her and her boyfriend. In such sensitive cases, the guy is left with little choice and has to take the call, either jeopardize his personal space or accept everything his girl does.
2. The ATM
What if you have to babysit your partner’s adult siblings? And by babysit I mean offer them financial help even though you are not accountable. It is a terrible situation to be in and can be the end of a relationship because, why should you add on to already existing burdens of life?
3. Mobile Greater Than The Man
Technology is both a bane and a boon. The devices meant to bridge the gap between two people has become the tool to actually widen it. It has given birth to lies and has become the key distraction. It so happened that a man’s girlfriend wouldn’t even look up from her phone screen on a date and would avoid real conversations for virtual ones.
4. The Messiah
It is natural to share your problems with someone you love and expect them to guide you, support you and be with you through rough times. In this particular relationship, they guy kind of adopted the damsel in distress because she refused to use her brain to solve her issues. The guy always had to jump in for help, and when he was exhausted, he decided to end the relationship.
5. Rebuilding People
We all have imperfections and that is what makes us humans. Ideally, our flaws should be such that it doesn’t hamper the well being of the other individual. Compatibility is a must; you can’t change the inherent characteristics of a person. This one girl wanted to change her boyfriend and constantly showed him his faults and he broke up unable to breathe in the relationship. You must not be in love with the idea of someone but the person themselves.
6. Boundaries
When you are in love, you want the other people to love your partner too. You introduce her to your best buds and take them out to have fun. What do you discover later on? She is “too” friendly with a guy and the next thing you know is she cheated on you with your bff.
7. Uncooperative
Dreams have a price and become reality only if you are willing to pay for it. This man’s girlfriend was supposedly supportive until she realized she too will have to sacrifice certain things and compromise for him to follow his goals. She would not endure any amount of difficulty for her better half.
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8. Never Enough
Some people are deeply dissatisfied with their lives and, no matter what you do, they will never be happy. This lad put in his hundred percent for a girl and she didn’t even thank him once. She would always take him for granted and he got tired in the end.
9. Chaotic Children
Being a happy couple and being great parents is not the same thing. This couple had a healthy relationship but everything went down the hill when kids came along. They were not on the same page as far as parenting is concerned so they parted their ways.
10. Bedroom Blues
Sexual gratification is important and we can’t deny it. Sometimes a bad chemistry can cause other issues like depression and lack of contentment, so it is best to seek satisfaction elsewhere in such cases.
