Off The Record
A Crying Little Girl Showed Up At My Door—Saying Her Mom Was Inside My House
I had no idea that welcoming a weeping youngster into my home would bring me the family I had given up on. But in the most surprising ways, life has a way of uniting damaged individuals.
Lila is my name. I’m thirty years old, and I’ve learned over the last five years that grief never goes away. It enters and turns into your shadow. When I was six months pregnant, I lost my baby boy. My husband departed three months later. He claimed that he was no longer able to do it.
So there I was, trying to find out how to live when everything had stopped, living alone in a two-bedroom apartment that I had moved into two years prior.
As a marketing analyst in Glendale, I put in a lot of overtime. Every Tuesday, I attended therapy, and on Thursdays, I attended a grieving support group. I followed all the instructions in the books.
However, the emptiness persisted.
Everything changed on a Friday afternoon in late spring. The doorbell rang when I was sipping coffee on my couch and browsing through my phone.
Going to the door, I peered through the spyhole.
My heart stopped beating.
On my porch stood a young girl. She was probably no older than six. She wore a faded gingham dress and her dark hair was styled in a tidy braid. But I was affected by her eyes. There is more sadness in those large, brown, and forlorn eyes than any child should be aware of.
She clasped her hands together as if in prayer.
Slowly, I opened the door.
I said, “Hi, sweetie,” while bending over. “How can I help you?”
Her eyes were wet and hopeful as she gazed at me. “My mother is in here. I’d like to see her.”
I was shaken and bewildered. “I think you might have the wrong house, honey.”
Her braid swung as she gave a firm shake of her head. “No. This is where my mother lives. Could you give her a call?”
In search of an adult, I looked past her. The porch, however, was deserted.
“I live here alone, honey. Nobody else is present.”
Tears filled her eyes as her bottom lip quivered.
“Please. I need my mommy, please. She’s inside, I promise. Call her, please.”
I had no idea what to do. I felt compelled to assist this child.
“Okay, let’s take a breath,” I murmured quietly. “Where is your father now? Could I give him a call for you?”
Her expression twisted, and the words she uttered chilled my blood.
“He’s in his house. However, he claims that Mommy is gone forever.”
The unfortunate thing. Had her mother passed away? Something broke inside me when she said it with such naive defiance. This young child was unable to come to terms with her bereavement.
And I saw a reflection of myself when I looked at her.
Her cries made her entire body tremble. Instinctively, I reached out, but she retreated.
“I swear, sweetie, your mother isn’t in my place. But why don’t you spend a moment inside? We’ll figure out a safe way to get you home, and I’ll fetch you some water. Alright?”
With tears flowing down her cheeks, she glanced up at me. I thought for a second that she might nod.
Then she blinked, though.
She simply turned around and fled as I blinked back. The girl was… gone.
With my palm out into the chilly, empty air, I stood motionless. My heart was racing. I entered the porch and glanced to my left and right.
Nothing. No little female. No footsteps. Only a few seconds ago, there was the slight scent of her presence.
“What the hell?” I muttered.
I tried to convince myself that I hadn’t dreamed it as I stood there for five minutes, staring at the spot where she had been. Her voice was still audible, though.
I required clarification.
I went to Mrs. Hanley’s house next door. She knew everyone in the building because she had lived there for more than 20 years.
Grinning and with flour on her hands, she said. “Lila, my love! Enter.”
Her apartment smelled like lemon and vanilla, and I followed her inside.
“I have a question for you, Mrs. Hanley. I know it seems insane, but just listen to me.”
She sat at her little kitchen table across from me and poured us both tea. “Go ahead, dear.”
Was my apartment previously occupied by a family? A family with a young child?
Mrs. Hanley stopped smiling. Carefully, she put down her teacup.
“Yes,” she said calmly. “A young couple. A daughter was born to them. Lovely tiny creature, always so courteous.”
“What happened to them?”
She let out a sigh as remembrance caused her eyes to grow distant.
“Mom became ill. Cancer. It was quick. Six months after the diagnosis, she was gone. After that, Jeffrey, the husband, simply could not stay. I guess it’s too many memories. After selling the property, he relocated a few blocks away. That was just before you moved in, roughly two years ago.”
Two years. It had been precisely two years since I moved into the flat.
I said, “The little girl,” with a constricted throat. “What was her name?”
“Cassie.”
Cassie. For weeks, the name kept repeating in my head.
I made an effort to forget. I told myself it was the tactics of stress and grief. I might have dreamed it.
However, I couldn’t get Cassie’s face off my mind. And those eyes of desperation.
Summer gave way to autumn and finally winter. I continued to attend to treatment and work, and I continued to advance. The holidays were cruel. Every pregnancy announcement, every mall family, and every coworker griping about their children felt like a dagger to the chest.
Then a late December night arrived. The chill that crept into your bones. I heard it while preparing dinner.
Continually knock.
Something made me check the peephole first as I made my way to the door.
Once more, she appeared.
Cassie.
She had a small coat wrapped around her. The cold had turned her cheeks crimson. Her eyelashes were frozen with tears.
I flung the door wide.
“Cassie?”
Relief flooded her cheeks as she looked up.
“Please,” she uttered in a broken voice. “I truly need my mother, lady. I can’t wake up Daddy, who’s on the floor. Please, please give my mother a call.”
My tummy fell to my feet.
“Where do you reside, Cassie? Could you show me?”
She took hold of my hand. She had really cold fingertips.
“Yes! I knew you would assist! Hurry up!”
I hardly remembered to lock the door as I snatched up my phone and coat. With her little hand clutching mine, Cassie dragged me down the stairs into the icy night.
We traveled three blocks. I followed Cassie till we came to a halt at a dilapidated structure.
They had unlocked the front door. We went up two flights of stairs. The stench of smoke filled the hallway. One door was open at the end.
Cassie opened it with a shove.
“Daddy’s in there.”
The only light in the flat was the flickering television. I located the light switch.
It was a complete disaster. Laundry, empty bottles, and pizza boxes littered the area.
And there was a man on the couch.
“Oh my God.” I hurried over and knelt next to him. “Mister? Can you hear me, sir?”
I gave him a shoulder shake. He let out a grunt but kept his eyes closed. He had an overpowering alcohol odor that made my eyes water.
“You must awaken, sir. You are needed by your daughter.”
I gave him a firmer shake. His eyes opened at last, unfocused and bloodshot.
He muttered, “Bess?”
“No, my name is Lila. I occupy your former apartment. You were unconscious on the floor, so your daughter came to collect me.”
It appeared to register. After failing at pushing himself up, he tried again.
He muttered, “Don’t need your help,” “Get out.”
My chest erupted in anger. This dad was too inebriated to stand, and he had a lovely little kid who was afraid.
“I’m not here for you,” I shot back, my tone penetrating. “I am available to Cassie. She went out in the bitter cold, knocking on a stranger’s door to ask for assistance, while you were lying here like this.”
At last, he got up and rubbed his face.
“Cassie?” He surveyed the area. “Where is she?”
She had been standing in the doorway, and I turned to indicate it. Cassie was there, her little body shaking, tears still running down her cheeks.
Gently, “She’s right there,” I said.
When Jeffrey saw his daughter, tears welled up in his eyes. He stumbled toward her, pushing himself up shakily.
“Cassie, baby, I’m so sorry.” His voice cracked. “I’m so sorry you had to see me like this.”
She rushed over to him and put her tiny arms around his waist.
“Daddy, I was so afraid. You wouldn’t become conscious. I hurried to our former home, bringing the gracious woman with me, and…”
Sobbing into her hair, he knelt down and drew her close to him. “I understand. I understand, my love. I apologize. I’m so sorry.”
My heart wrenched for both of them as I watched this devastated father comfort his frightened daughter.
Jeffrey eventually looked up at me, tears streaming down his cheeks.
“Thank you,” he said in a whisper. “Thank you for bringing her home safe.”
I whispered, “She brought me here,” “She’s a brave little girl.”
Still on to Cassie, he nodded. “She ought not to be. Her age is six years. Instead of scouring the streets seeking assistance because her dad is struggling, she ought to be playing with dolls.”
I remarked, “You’re grieving,” “But assistance is available. For her benefit. For you.”
He glanced back at me after glancing down at Cassie. “You’re correct. I must perform better. I must perform better.”
That’s when I should have left. I should have left without turning around. Instead, I found myself sitting in that disorganized living room with Jeffrey while he prepared coffee, trying to figure out how we were going to move on from this point.
“My wife, Bessie… she died in that apartment,” Jeffrey remarked while holding his mug in his hands. “She preferred to be at home rather than in a hospital. I looked after her until the very end after we arranged hospice care.”
“I’m so sorry.”
He looked into his coffee and nodded.
Cassie was just three years old. Too young to truly comprehend what was going on. She incessantly inquired as to when Mommy would awaken and when she would recover. “To a three-year-old, I had no idea how to convey death.”
“How do you explain it to anyone?” I spoke quietly.
At that moment, I noticed recognition in his eyes as he looked up at me. “You’ve lost someone too.”
With my throat too constricted to speak, I nodded.
“My unborn child. Next came my marriage. Sometimes it still seems like yesterday,” I disclosed.
We sat quietly. Two shattered individuals united by suffering and loss.
“I can’t do this alone anymore,” Jeffrey, at last, replied. “I believed I could support Cassie with strength. However, I’m drowning.”
“I understand how you feel. However, you must do this for her and for yourself.”
I checked on Jeffrey during the course of the following week. made sure he was eating, brought him coffee, and put him in touch with a therapist.
We gradually became buddies.
I heard about Bess from him. How she had always wished to become a mother, how they met in college, and how she made him laugh.
I informed him about my son, the name we had decided on, and the nursery I had painted. About how, when we lost him, my husband was unable to look at me.
Months went by. Through meetings, a sponsor, and the difficult process of dealing with his grief, Jeffrey was able to get sober.
I began to visit their flat more frequently. assisting with homework. preparing dinner. viewing motion pictures.
It was instinctive.
Jeffrey and I were cleaning the kitchen one evening after Cassie had gone to bed when he stopped.
“I think I’m falling in love with you.”
I put the dish I was cleaning down.
“I think I’m falling in love with you too.”
Then he gave me a tender, hopeful, and sweet kiss.
We moved slowly. For ourselves, for Cassie. And we were married in a modest ceremony a year later. Beside me, wearing a pink outfit, was Cassie, who was beaming.
Life began to feel full once more. Real, warm, and worthy of life.
I took a pregnancy test two years after I first met Jeffrey.
Good.
I was afraid. Fearful about losing a child again. However, Jeffrey was there for me during every appointment and every anxious time.
I gave birth to a healthy boy nine months later. We gave him the name Henry.
The most proud big sister was Cassie. She wanted to assist in every way.
Our small family felt whole.
I was putting Cassie to bed one night when Henry was six months old. Even though she was nine years old and growing up, she still enjoyed being snuggled in.
“Mom?” she murmured.
My heart was still tense when I heard the word. She had begun referring to me as “Mom” approximately six months following the wedding.
“Yeah, sweetie?”
“I think my first mommy sent me to find you.”
With my hand on her blanket, I froze.
“What do you mean?”
Her brown eyes, which I had seen on my porch, were fixed on me.
“I don’t recall carrying it out. However, I occasionally dream about going to your flat on foot. Regarding rapping on your door. My mother is also with me in the dream. You need me as much as I need you,” she says.
My eyes pricked with tears.
“Cassie, I…”
“I think she knew,” Cassie added. “Daddy was drowning,” that you felt depressed. “so that we might support one another.”
I bent over and gave her a forehead kiss. “I think maybe she did, sweetheart.”
Cassie closed her eyes and grinned. In a matter of minutes, she fell asleep.
Jeffrey was feeding Henry as I returned to our bedroom. He grinned as he looked up.
“Everything okay?”
I sat next to him and nodded.
“Yes. Everything is fine.”
It was, too. Not flawless. Not without suffering or the specters of our deceased loved ones. But all right.
Destiny doesn’t always knock politely. It knocks on your door like a small girl in need. It takes you three blocks in the bitter cold to a man who is equally in need of salvation as you are.
Grief also doesn’t always go away. It returns the favor.
I discovered that nothing hurts more than being broken open by loss. However, being broken open allows for the growth of something new. Something surprising that appears to be a second opportunity after you’ve lost faith in them.
I showed up when Cassie needed me, and she showed up when I needed her. I’ll never know if it was magic, grief, or simply the cosmos acting in enigmatic ways.
But I am aware of my gratitude. for coming to my door. For the young girl whose eyes were full of desperation. For the wounded guy who discovered how to mend. And for the family we created out of our broken fragments.
And I am aware that Bess is grinning somewhere, knowing that the people she cared about were able to find love once more.
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