Alpha-human are considered to be the people with dominant personalities. Some would also refer to them as people with Type A personality…
Alpha Woman – The term immediately evokes a sense of dominance, confidence and independence. Being a 21st century woman, I’m blessed to be surrounded by such strong, beautiful and absolute badass queens who have not only shaped me into the person that I am today, but also keep cheering me on to achieve all my goals.
Alpha-women are warriors, who fight for their rights and earn their place in this world, and most importantly, do not tolerate injustice. When they step into a room, you are bound to pay attention. Not only are they absolute divas, but also empowering, like famous YouTuber iiSuperwomanii aka Lilly Singh, who promotes #girllove to encourage women to stand by themselves and stop girl-on-girl hate. They take charge and bring about positive changes in the world. They have got no time for petty drama; they would rather spend their time hustling hard! That’s why some men find it hard to put up with an Alpha Woman.
Here are some keys ways how men might struggle to deal with а strong woman:
1. A strong woman doesn’t need a man to fight for her
A man needs to feel wanted. He needs to know that he is battling for the eternal love and admiration of his woman. A strong woman will show you that she loves her man, but she’s also independent and can manage on her own. The strong woman will fight for both of you, but she doesn’t need a man to fight her battles.
2. She knows what she wants
They know what they want and how to get it. She is tenacious, so don’t expect her to sit around and wait for you to make the first move all the time.
3. A strong woman is ok with being vulnerable
Men have a hard time opening up to difficult questions. Strong women dive right into the depth of hurt, traumas, and life-changing experiences. They require a man who can be honest and vulnerable, because they have endured so much in their lives.
4. She is not intimidated by intimacy
She is passionate and not afraid to show it. She will openly demand it of the man; be it in the sack or in conversation.
5. She’ll catch your lies
She can sense lies in an instant, so don’t try to sugar-coat a white lie. Don’t give her bogus explanations.
6. They need integrity and consistency
They want to know that the man they love has integrity, respect, and is a man of his word. If they start to feel that their man is pulling away, they will react accordingly and have no problem letting him go if they feel they are being played.
7. She is intense
She has had to be extremely powerful. She knows she can endure anything else in her path, so this kind of intensity is often difficult for a man to understand.
8. She will not wait for you
This type of woman will follow you to the depth of hell if she knows you are committed to her. However, the moment you start to pull back, she will let you go.
9. She will love you unconditionally
Just like mothers with their children, the strong woman will nurture and love her man fiercely. When she feels that love in return, she will do anything she can to make you feel loved.
10. You learn about yourself being with her
It’s hard to accept the things we don’t like about ourselves when someone points them out. But, a strong woman will mirror those parts in her man that need addressing. She will be there to help show you how amazing and powerful you are. Some men cannot handle the emotional chaos that comes up with this projection.
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